Unemployment and relationship

Issues concerning unemployment and long breaks in your career

Unemployment and relationship

Postby Hannah » Tue Dec 02, 2008 12:08 am

My boyfriend was made redundant from Lehman Brothers a little while ago. He took it very badly and became moody and not very nice to me. In the end it broke us up and we are no longer a couple. I think losing their jobs is very bad for men as it hurts their pride, especially when the woman is still working like I was.

Has this happened to anyone else? It is not very nice I found.
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Re: Unemployment and relationship

Postby Wingman » Tue Dec 02, 2008 12:10 am

Did he become violent when he was angry? Some guys totally lose it when they get angry?

Its doesn't sound like a good situation to be in...people need to control anger not matter how bad it is...especially with those that they care about. I think you might be lucky to have broken up!
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Re: Unemployment and relationship

Postby Hannah » Mon Dec 08, 2008 7:39 pm

No he wasn't violent I wouldn't stand for anything like that. I would have kicked his butt because I am Polish and we are strong women...must be the beer we drink :)

No he just became a not nice person. He would try to make me feel bad about myself and would criticise me all the time. He would make me feel ugly :( boo to him but someways I don't blame him as he was going through a hard time.
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Re: Unemployment and relationship

Postby Wingman » Mon Dec 08, 2008 7:43 pm

Looking at your picture I have to say that there is no way that you are ugly.

You are very sexy! :oops:
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Re: Unemployment and relationship

Postby Hannah » Mon Dec 08, 2008 7:49 pm

Yes that is my picture and you are a very nice man. It makes me happy when people say kind things like that...I have not been feeling great about myself for a while.

If you like PM me we can have a private chat, I think you are nice...
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Re: Unemployment and relationship

Postby Wingman » Mon Dec 08, 2008 7:49 pm

Sure thing...I would love you get to know you more! :P
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